Sunday, May 10, 2026

Sacraments that are Only Valid; Sacraments that are Valid and Fruitful

 

(Sixth Sunday of Easter (A): This homily was given on May 10, 2026 at St. Pius X Church, Westerly, R.I., by Fr. Raymond Suriani.  Read Acts 8:5-8, 14-17; Psalm 66:1-20; 1 Peter 3:15-18; John 14:15-21.)

[For the audio version of this homily, click here: Sixth Sunday of Easter 2026]

 

Religiously speaking, what do Adolph Hitler, Benito Mussolini and Joseph Stalin have in common with St. John Paul II, St. Francis of Assisi and St. Pius X?

You may be tempted to say, “Nothing,” but that would be incorrect.

Believe it or not, religiously speaking the three scoundrels in the first group share at least one thing in common with the three holy men in the second group: Baptism!  Hitler, Mussolini and Stalin were all born again of water and the Holy Spirit as infants!  They were all set free from original sin; they all received sanctifying grace into their souls, and they all became members of God’s family, the Church.  Of course, in one way or another they all repudiated the Faith later in life, but that’s another story.  Their later wickedness doesn’t negate their baptisms; it doesn’t change the fact that they once received the same sacramental graces that St. John Paul II, St. Francis of Assisi, and St. Pius X received on the days they were baptized.

Which brings up the obvious question: How is it possible for an Adolph Hitler and a John Paul II to experience God’s grace in the same way through Baptism, and then become exact opposites in their earthly lives?

The only way to answer that question is to make reference to a very important distinction of sacramental theology:  it’s the distinction between a sacrament that’s valid, and a sacrament that’s valid and fruitful. 

For a sacrament to be valid, you need the proper minister (for Baptism—in ordinary circumstances—that means a bishop, priest or deacon); you need the proper matter and form (in Baptism, that means water, and the words of the Trinitarian formula: “I baptize you in the name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.”); and the one administering the sacrament must have the right intention (in Baptism, that means the intention to do what the Church does when she baptizes).  If all those prerequisites are satisfied, then the person in question—be it Adolph Hitler or Francis of Assisi—truly receives the sacrament.

But obviously that’s not supposed to be the end of the story!  Jesus has given us the seven sacraments for a specific purpose: so that they will bear fruit—good fruit—in our earthly lives, and thus assist us on our pilgrim journey to Heaven.  But whether or not this happens depends largely on us: we decide whether the sacrament we receive will be only valid, or valid and fruitful.  We do that by either rejecting the grace given in the sacrament, or cooperating with it.  This, of course, explains the difference between the three scoundrels and the three holy men I mentioned a few moments ago: the three holy men nurtured their baptismal grace and it bore good fruit in their lives; the three scoundrels did not.

This important truth about the sacraments is illustrated right in our midst (and in every Catholic church) each and every Sunday.  For example, one man receives the Eucharist at a Sunday Mass, walks right out of church, swears at people in the parking lot, and yells at his wife and kids when he gets home for no good reason.  Another man at the same Mass receives, goes back to his pew and sincerely prays that he can put into practice the Gospel message he’s heard that day.  Then he goes out and puts forth his best effort in that regard. 

Did both men receive a valid sacrament?  You bet.  But only one allowed it to bear good fruit in his life.

I thought of all this in preparation for this homily, because our three Scripture readings this weekend deal (either explicitly or implicitly) with the sacraments of Baptism and Confirmation. 

In today’s Gospel text from John 15 Jesus says, “I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Advocate [i.e., the Holy Spirit] to be with you always, the Spirit of truth, which the world cannot accept, because it neither sees nor knows him.  But you know him because he remains with you and will be in you.”  The Spirit is given to us first at Baptism; then another outpouring of the Spirit is given to us at Confirmation.  In today’s first reading from Acts 8 we’re told that the apostles went to Samaria, and there they found some new Christians.  Nothing strange about that.  But what was unusual was the fact that these new Christians had only been baptized!  For some reason, they hadn’t received the second outpouring of the Spirit which comes at Confirmation.  And so the apostles immediately laid hands on them to confirm them and remedy the situation. 

The second reading from 1 Peter 3 fits into this by giving us an important insight as to why this second outpouring is necessary.  Ask most young people why they want to receive the sacrament of Confirmation, and they’ll usually tell you one of two things.  Either they’ll say, “Because I want to get married someday in the Church”—which, by the way, is a horrible reason to want to be confirmed.  And besides, canon law does not say you must be confirmed to be married in the Church; it indicates that you should be confirmed.  Let me warn you, teenagers: if that’s the only reason you’re being confirmed (so that you can be married in the Church someday), then this sacrament will probably not bear much fruit in your life.  It will be valid, but that’s about it. 

The second reason young people will commonly give for wanting to be confirmed is this one: “I want to be an adult in the Church.”  To which I always want to respond, “What does that mean?”  If you’re over 18 and you’re a baptized Catholic, then you’re an adult in the Church!—whether you are confirmed or not!

The purpose of this second sacramental outpouring of the Holy Spirit in Confirmation is WITNESS!  That’s what Peter is talking about in today’s second reading.  When Jesus told his apostles that he would send them the Holy Spirit he said, “You will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes to you, and [then] you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, throughout Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.”  Confirmation is given to make us bold, strong, loving, committed Catholics who aren’t afraid to be different; who aren’t afraid to stand up for the truth and be counted.”

“But Fr. Ray, that’s hard.”

Yes!!!! And that’s precisely the point!  If it weren’t hard we wouldn’t need this sacrament!  Listen now to what Peter says in that second reading: “Sanctify Christ as Lord in your hearts.  Always be ready to give an explanation to anyone who asks you for a reason for your hope, but do it with gentleness and reverence, keeping your conscience clear. . . . for it is better to suffer for doing good, if that be the will of God, than for doing evil.”

That’s the kind of witness we are called to give through the power of the Holy Spirit. 

Why is this so important?  Well, aside from our own salvation being at stake, if we fail to allow our baptism to bear good fruit in our life, we will cause harm to others—even to those we love.  Take the three scoundrels I mentioned at the beginning of my homily.  They clearly squandered the grace that God had graciously given to them at their baptisms.  It bore almost no good fruit in their lives, and millions—literally millions—of innocent people suffered because of it.

You know the history.

By the way, the same thing is true today of baptized civil leaders who reject the grace of their baptisms by supporting evils like abortion.    

How many people have suffered because of that?  How many innocent lives have been lost?

Life, my brothers and sisters, is all about choices.  Among the most important choices we make, are the ones that concern the sacraments we receive.  Will I, or will I not, allow my baptism, my confirmation—and the Holy Eucharist—to bear good fruit in my life?  Will these sacraments be only valid for me, or will they be valid and fruitful? 

Dear Lord, may we always choose the second option in our lives.


Sunday, April 19, 2026

When will they realize who is in their midst? When will we realize who is in our midst?

 


(Third Sunday of Easter (A): This homily was given on April 19, 2026 at St. Pius X Church, Westerly, R.I. by Fr. Raymond Suriani.  Read Luke 24:13-35).

[For the audio version of this homily, click here: Third Sunday of Easter 2026]

 

I think Rod Serling and Alfred Hitchcock would have enjoyed today’s gospel story about the two disciples who met the risen Christ on the road to Emmaus.  That’s because this story has a certain “suspense” about it—and those two men both enjoyed suspenseful stories.

The suspense centers around one issue which can be expressed in the form of a question: When will they realize who it is?  When will these two disciples finally realize who it is who is walking and talking with them?  Will it ever happen?  Or will Jesus just leave them without ever making himself known?

The tension starts right at the beginning.  We find out that these are two disciples of Jesus, who are “conversing about all the things that had occurred” during the previous few days.  So immediately we feel sympathy for them.  After all, they were disciples—close followers of Jesus—men who had put all their hopes in our Lord.  But those hopes were seemingly crushed on the previous Friday, when Jesus was crucified.  Then, all of a sudden, seemingly out of nowhere, Jesus appears and begins to walk with them, and we immediately think to ourselves: “Great!  Now they’ll realize that everything’s all right!  Now they’ll realize that he’s been raised from the dead!  Now they can be at peace.”  But, unfortunately, they don’t recognize him, which is what gives birth to the suspense.  Now why didn’t they immediately know who it was?  That’s an issue that troubles many people.  Was it because they had short memories and couldn’t remember what Jesus looked like three days before?  No, not at all.  They probably didn’t recognize him because our Lord’s body looked a lot different in its glorified state.  Yes, it was the same body he had before the crucifixion, but something about it appeared to be different.  Very mysterious, to say the least.  This is something that we’ll probably never understand fully until we get our own resurrected bodies at the end of time.

And so the two disciples and Jesus begin a lengthy, deep conversation.  And through it all the suspense continues to build, and we keep asking ourselves that ever-present question: “When will they finally realize who it is?  C’mon guys, can’t you figure it out yet?  What’s taking you so long?”

The climax comes when they’re at table at the end of the day.  St. Luke tells us that at that point Jesus “took bread, said the blessing, broke it and gave it to them.”  This, of course, was exactly what our Lord had done at the Last Supper.  The disciples realize that—they realize that Jesus is consecrating the Eucharist for them just as he had done for his apostles a few nights earlier—and their eyes are finally opened.  The suspense, at long last, is over, and Jesus vanishes from their sight.

This changed everything for these two disciples.  That’s such an important fact to keep in mind.  When they finally realized who it was who was in their midst, it changed their mood, it changed their attitude; I dare say it changed their whole perspective on life.  They were no longer depressed and confused.  They were now joyful and anxious to tell everyone the good news.  And they began by immediately running off to the upper room and telling the eleven apostles and the others who were there with them.

There’s a very practical lesson here, I would say, for all of us.  At first, these two disciples did not realize who was in their midst.  That was their problem.  And that, believe it or not, is also our problem.  In fact, it’s really the fundamental problem of human life. It’s the reason the world’s in the mess that it’s in at the present time.  Mother Teresa used to describe the poor and suffering people she ministered to as “Jesus Christ, in distressing disguise.”  Mother Teresa was a woman who always understood who was in her midst!  In other words, she understood that the image of Jesus was mysteriously present in every single human person, and she treated them accordingly.  How easy it is for us to forget that or to ignore that fact—especially when we’re dealing with people who have hurt us or who don’t like us.  But what a different world it would be if we could all get and keep this supernatural perspective that Mother Teresa and all the saints had.  Sin, although it would not be eliminated, would certainly be lessened.

There would be less violence and fewer wars.  There would be less racism, less sexual immorality, less dishonesty.  Because instead of treating others like objects for our own selfish gain and pleasure, we would all begin to treat others with respect, realizing that they are human beings created in the Lord’s image.

Well, we can’t instantaneously change everyone’s perspective in this regard, but we can certainly make the daily effort to change our own, and that will help in a small but real way to change the world.  And how can we begin to be more aware of the Lord’s presence in others?  Well, one way is by taking Mass seriously.  After all, that’s what did it for the two disciples in today’s gospel.  They became aware of who was in their midst because they entered deeply into the Mass that Jesus began to celebrate for them on the road to Emmaus.  No, St. Luke doesn’t call their experience a Mass, but that’s exactly what it was.  Every Mass has two parts: the Liturgy of the Word, and the Liturgy of the Eucharist.  Jesus celebrated a Liturgy of the Word for these men as they walked those many miles to Emmaus.  He quoted from the Scriptures, and gave them a long, long, long homily—far longer than anything you’ll ever get from Fr. Ray (so count your blessings!).  And it’s obvious that they were not daydreaming when this was happening; they weren’t looking at their watches (or should I say sundials?).  They were attentive, they were all ears.  As they later said, their hearts were “burning” inside them.  And then, when they sat down at table, Jesus completed the Mass by celebrating the Liturgy of the Eucharist.  And please notice that neither one of these disciples ran out before it was over.

They became aware of who was in their midst because they entered deeply into the Mass.  And that’s one of the things that will help us to be more conscious of the Lord’s presence in others.  Is it a coincidence that Mother Teresa loved the Mass so much and attended every single day?  I don’t think so.  I believe that’s why she could see “Jesus Christ in distressing disguise” wherever she went.  By the grace of God which we receive at this Mass and at every Mass, may we be able to do the same.


Sunday, April 05, 2026

The Gift of Easter and How to Experience It

 

  

(Easter 2026: This homily was given on April 5, 2026 at St. Pius X Church, Westerly, R.I., by Fr. Raymond Suriani.  Read Acts 10:34-43; Psalm 118:1-23; Romans 6:3-11; John 20:1-9.)

[For the audio version of this homily, click here: Easter 2026]


One night a man had a dream.  In this dream he saw Jesus tied to a whipping post while a soldier scourged him unmercifully.  The pieces of metal and bone that were attached to the ends of the whipping cords tore into our Lord's flesh again and again and again until his back was just a mass of raw meat.  This was a typically-brutal Roman scourging.  Mel Gibson portrayed it well in The Passion of the Christ.  Many people who experienced these scourgings died from them. 

The man watched this horrific scene for several minutes.  Finally he couldn't take it any longer.  As the soldier raised his arm for yet another strike, the dreamer rushed forward to try to stop him.  At that moment the soldier turned around quickly, and the dreamer let out a scream when he saw his face—because the soldier had HIS face.  He was the soldier!

My brothers and sisters, if you do not understand that story, then you will not understand today's story: the glorious Easter story of the Resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead.  That's because the only people who truly appreciate the gift are those who understand their need for the gift.  The only people who appreciate deliverance (from sin or anything else) are those who understand their need for deliverance.  I remember reading a story once about the last days of World War II.  At that time the prisoners at Dachau had heard a frightful rumor: Hitler had ordered the execution of all prisoners and the burning of all the concentration camps.  And so when these frightened, exhausted, emaciated men and women heard tanks approach the compound on this particular day, and when they heard one begin to smash against the front gate, they prepared for death.  They thought they were doomed.  Until they saw the American flag painted on the front!  They were being liberated, not exterminated!  Can you imagine how grateful they were at that moment?  In the midst of their suffering, they understood their need for deliverance, and they were elated when it finally came.  The man who had the dream about the scourging of our Lord had a similar awareness of his need.  The instant he saw that he was the soldier, he understood his need for deliverance: deliverance from his personal sins which were responsible, in part, for the sufferings that Jesus endured on Good Friday.

In this regard, I find it significant that the very first person to whom Jesus appeared on Easter Sunday morning was a woman named Mary Magdalene.  Why was she first?  Why not Peter or one of the apostles?  Wouldn't it have made more sense for our Lord to appear to one of them before he appeared to her or to anyone else?  Well, I'm convinced that Mary was given this incredible privilege because at the time she understood her need for Jesus more than the apostles understood their need for the Lord.  The Bible tells us that during his ministry Jesus had cast 7 devils out of Mary Magdalene.  Traditionally she's also been associated with the prostitute who washed our Lord's feet with her tears and dried them with her hair.  Jesus had delivered this woman and set her free from sin and the forces of evil that were destroying her life.  And she knew that she needed to keep Jesus in her life in order to stay delivered.  (By the way, if she were a Catholic today, that means she would be at Mass EVERY Sunday—and probably every day.)  Consequently, because she recognized her great need for Jesus, she remained faithful to him—even when all the apostles had run away.  So it was fitting that she was the first one to see him risen from the dead.  It was not a coincidence.

The message of Easter is that Jesus Christ has won the decisive victory over sin and eternal death for Mary Magdalene and for each and every one of us.  But the Lord did not "force" his victory on Mary, nor will he "force" his victory on any one of us.  If we want to experience the fruits of his redemptive act, then we've got to be like Magdalene and come to Jesus, willing to admit our great need for his mercy.  Which means that we've got to be willing to confront our personal sins!  And not just some of them, but all of them!  The sins of uncharity, the sins of unforgiveness, the sins of greed and materialism, the sins of impurity.  This, of course—this idea of confronting our personal sins—is a radical one for those of us living in the early 21st century, when personal sin is frequently denied, and guilt is often looked upon as the worst thing in the world.  Well, let's be clear about it: guilt is not the worst thing in the world!  The worst thing in the world is the denial of guilt.  Because if we deny our guilt for our sins, we cannot be forgiven by the Lord.  And we cannot enter heaven!  I'll tell you quite honestly: it always amuses me when so-called experts say that all people need to do to be psychologically happy is to stop feeling guilty about things.  That's ridiculous!  Do you know what they call people who don't feel guilty about anything?  Psychopaths!  Psychopaths are the most guilt-free men and women on the planet!  They can murder a dozen people and think nothing of it!

If we wish to experience the fruits of the resurrection of Jesus Christ, then our attitude must be like Mary Magdalene's—or like John Newton's after his conversion.  I’m talking here about the John Newton who wrote a hymn that we sing in church all the time.  He was born in the early 18th century.  His mother died when he was 7.  His father was a sea captain and good Christian, but early on Newton rejected the faith his father had tried to instill in him.  Then, from age 17 to age 23, he traveled all over the world and got himself into all sorts of trouble.  He led a promiscuous lifestyle; he was sold as a slave; then, when he escaped, he became a slave trader.  He went through many difficult times.  And nothing ever motivated him to change for the better—until he almost died in a storm at sea.  Then he finally cried out to God, as desperate people sometimes do.  He promised the Lord that if he came out of the storm alive he'd reform.  Now, unlike many others who make similar promises, Newton was true to his word.  In fact, he eventually became a Methodist minister.  That's when he wrote the words to that hymn that almost every Christian knows: Amazing Grace.  He wrote them out of his own experience of facing his sin and receiving new life in Christ.  "Amazing grace, how sweet the sound, that saved a wretch like me.  I once was lost, but now I'm found; was blind, but now I see."  At the time of his death, Newton had the following words inscribed on his tombstone: "John Newton, Clerk.  Once an infidel and libertine; A servant of slaves in Africa; was, by the rich mercy of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ preserved, restored, pardoned, and appointed to preach the Faith he had long labored to destroy." 

What strikes me about that inscription is the honesty behind it.  Newton was not afraid to admit to the world that he had been a scoundrel.  That's because he understood the power of the Risen Christ to wash away those horrible sins of the past and to eventually bring him to heaven.  Do we understand that power—that power that we have available to us as Catholics in the beautiful sacrament of Reconciliation?  As Newton wrote in the song: "Yes, when this flesh and heart shall fail, and mortal life shall cease, amazing grace will then prevail in heaven's joy and peace."

I said at the beginning of my homily that the only people who appreciate the gift of new life that Jesus brings us by his Resurrection, are those who know how much they need the gift—those who know their poverty, their imperfections, their sins, their need for healing.  People like John Newton, people like Mary Magdalene—and, hopefully, people like us.


Sunday, March 29, 2026

A Lesson From the Events of Holy Week: Never Base Your Beliefs on Public Polling Data

 


(Palm Sunday 2026 (A): This homily was given on March 29, 2026 at St. Pius X Church, Westerly, R.I., by Fr. Raymond Suriani.)

[For the audio version of this homily, click here: Palm Sunday 2026]


The events of Holy Week prove, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that we should never base our beliefs on public polling data.  Never!  If Mr. Gallup, for example, had been around in the year 33, and had taken a poll on the very first Palm Sunday, asking the people in Jerusalem the question, “Is Jesus of Nazareth the Messiah?” I’m almost certain the results would been overwhelmingly positive—probably about 95% yes, 2% no, and 3% undecided.  (Unfortunately there are always a few in every crowd who can’t make up their minds.)  But by Good Friday, those yes and no numbers would have been completely reversed!  And I dare say even a lot of the “undecideds” would have crossed over to the “no” side.

But the important, decisive fact to remember in all of this is that Jesus was still the Messiah on Good Friday!  He was just as much the Messiah then as he was on Palm Sunday!  The change in the polling numbers would not have changed the reality of who Jesus was.  The 2% who remained faithful to our Lord knew that, and so they were just as much for him on Good Friday as they were on Palm Sunday. 

I don’t know about you, but I want my faith to be like the faith of that 2%.  And incidentally, this faithful 2% was composed mainly of women (sorry, guys)—like Mary, the Mother of Jesus, and Mary Magdalene.  Their faith was not undermined by the changing tide of public opinion.  To put it another way, their faith was not undermined by peer pressure.  Their faith also was not destroyed in the midst of the suffering they personally endured with Jesus.  Our Blessed Mother, for example, had to stand at the foot of the cross as her only Son died right in front of her eyes.  For her, that must have been a living hell.  But she never turned away from God.  Not even then; not even for a second.  A person’s faith doesn’t get any stronger than that.

All of us have a special opportunity this week to become more like Mary and that faithful 2%.  The liturgies of Holy Week, the special times for prayer that the Church provides on Holy Thursday and Good Friday, the extra prayer time the Church encourages us to engage in—all of these are designed to make our faith rock-solid, so that we won’t waver in our love for Christ and his Gospel—even if everyone around us is losing faith—even if we’re in the midst of many difficult, personal trials. 

It’s my simple prayer this morning that all of us will take advantage of this opportunity that our Lord will give us in the next seven days to grow stronger and become more alive in our Catholic faith. May it truly be a holy Holy Week for us all.